Mistletoe and Wine…Not this Year!

Sabrina Vallis
3 min readDec 20, 2023

How you thought how unconsciously we hear the incitements to drink during the season to be merry?

Christmas with Red Wine — an empty bottle — a hollow experience
Christmas with Red Wine Image by Author An empty bottle — a hollow experience.

Cliff Richard’s famous song started as a political rant (not by him) but he asked to rewrite the lyrics to echo the sentiments of the season. He clearly did not foresee the rash of crass t-shirts and mugs the lyrics would spawn. But it is true that Christmas should be:

A time for giving, a time for getting,
A time for forgiving and for forgetting.
Christmas is love, Christmas is peace,
A time for hating and fighting to cease.

Christmas time, Mistletoe and Wine
Children singing Christian rhyme
With logs on the fire and gifts on the tree
A time to rejoice in the good that we see

From Cliff Richard’s famous song: Mistletoe and Wine

How many times have we heard this or even sung it in a drunken daze?

But it is as if wine is the only thing that can raise our spirits to the occasion of Christmas. Having never had a Boxing Day hangover, despite a quite spectacular drinking career, I am looking forward to a completely sober Christmas.

I wrote yesterday that sobriety brings in its wake a joyfulness and clarity that harks back to childhood, when Christmas was indeed a joyful time, cheerful and not needing spirits to raise our mood. An innocence, a…

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Sabrina Vallis

Sobriety writer. NLP Master Practitioner and Nutritionist. Current research: Addiction and the Brain: Ways to Heal. Neuroscience helps us quit.